Saturday, January 8, 2011

THE TRUTH


Rev. Diannia Baty
THE TRUTH
In my spiritual coaching work I advocate that we have to learn to change language used in terms of how we address ourselves, so that when we are faced with the challenge of looking at our bare faced soul in the mirror and our ‘untruth’ we do so from a place of compassion and love. This way we can look at all t...he elements of who we are which contribute to us as a whole making it easier for us to face who we are and deal with the pain of our reality or truth.

When we learn to use non judgmental language and be kinder and gentler when we
speak about ourselves this also empowers us to do the same with others. I will explain further. Rather than use terminology of ‘right, wrong or bad’ about a situation or experience what about saying ‘this is the outcome. Is it how I wanted it to turn out? If the answer is yes, then that is fine. Yet what if the answer is no? Then the outcome is still what is it but now you have the chance to consider doing something about the ‘no.’ Using language like ‘this was a mistake or this was bad ‘ is judgmental. When we use judgmental language we are much more likely to dust the situation under the carpet and not face it.

Therefore, we do not stand in our truth, in order to help deal with our reality, changing how we address ourselves helps in the process of dealing with and healing. When not in our truth this exposes a myriad of emotions which are often not congruent with whom we truly are, because we are not in alignment with our self and our soul’s purpose. In this place we give away a lot of our personal power to others. We allow others, their ideas, beliefs and perceptions of us to become us. We then become resentful, frustrated, angry and bitter allowing ourselves to become confined within the limitations of what we feel someone else has put upon us or even what we put upon ourselves. Yet remember we must take personal responsibility for every action we conduct and how we perceive every experience. To truly live your life at it's highest most profound level we have to delve into exactly what our truth is. It takes practice especially if you haven't done this.

When you start living , speaking and understanding truth on a soul level wondrous events start to occur as the old you starts to die away and your higher self is born. The inner silence where God resides becomes stronger and the truth truly will set you free.
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