It is time to connect back with this. It has been neglected for such a long time. I am peaceful and ready to move forward with some things..and each day gives me many opportunities. I am living large and I am seriously blessed.

I have been remiss...

I has been a while since I posted anything to any of my 4 blogs and I think it is about time. So, I am hoping you will pardon me for the time lost or is it really lost. The truth is I have been giving my wall on face book a lot of attention and have turned it into a spiritual class of sorts...just on line instead. It is time to get back to basics here and let you know that I am back. The last 6 months of last year and into this year, I have gone through a lot of changes, but I think I am doing fine with it but there have been times when I wanted to run away to a mountain cabin and stay there for a while. Every day offers new opportunities and I look at each one of them with a practiced eye.

The Gift Of Anger!

There seems to be an abundance of people who do not respect boundaries and when a boundary is clearly defined they still walk all over the rights of other people.
So, even setting a boundary is not effective because they have a sense of self entitlement to their needs and not others needs. They use your things without asking and even get offended if they do ask and you say no. Their ability to nurture and care for others is very slim.

They try and take over, your space, the conversation and indeed your life if they can. In their minds, they always know better than anyone else. What you think is not an issue to them, it is all about what they think.
They will be constantly correcting and pointing out to you how you are wrong and they are right...and make no mistake about it, they are always right!
The normal courtesies and mutual respect for other people simply do not apply to them.
Being clear about what you will and will not tolerate goes right over their heads.
After a time, you will be forced to make a decision in finding other ways to enforce your boundaries that are stronger because these people in many cases just don't care what you think and want. It is all about them and no one else.
If you are normally a person of peace who tries all the spiritual methods of dealing with a person like this, it can be a real challenge to step out of the spiritual mind for a bit and deal with this from an entirely different level.

These people do not make friends, they take hostages. The hostage will eventually rebel and walk away and have nothing more to do with them.
If you have someone like this in your life that is in your inner circle of family , friends, etc., You have probably put up with this for a longer time than most, trying everything you could think of to make the relationship work to no avail. You have even nicely let them have it more than once and maybe things changed for a bit but went right back to the status quo.

Here you are in the thick of it and and stomach is churning and you feel yourself on edge, I have a suggestion for you...allow yourself to get angry! Yep. you heard me right, get royally pissed because you have a right to be upset. Even what we people on the spiritual path would normally call a negative emotion, can be a gift if you look at it in a new light. This emotion is clearly telling us there is something we must change something and pay attention to and at that point it becomes all about you and not them.

I am not advocating throwing dishes or getting weapons of mass destruction out, what I am saying is to express the anger and let it rip out into the atmosphere. Express it. Holding it in is simply not good. It is said...and I believe it to be true that depression is nothing more than anger turned inward. I advocate speaking your truth but doing it in the right way and there are times when speaking our truth just might be verbal expression of anger. Imagine for a moment that the person in question is standing right in front of you and you suddenly, loudly and forcefully say, "NO!" Now, you have to admit just the thought of that felt good. Consider that you said it three times quickly and forcefully. It will be so quiet that you will hear a pin drop after you verbalize what is in your heart and energy field. Just saying that word is empowering. For me I have found it very effective and I will not ignore my anger. It is truly a gift.

In whatever context that someone is not respecting you in any way and you feel angry, pay close attention and remember you cannot change any one else, you can only change yourself! When you start learning new ways to be in this world, you have the support of God and the entire force of the universe assisting you in making changes.
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Prayer for today...October 12th, 2011

LET ME!
Eyes, open wide to let in all the beauty and light that is ever there.
Let me not be blind to what is before me.

Ears, tune in to hear all the delightful sounds of life.
Let me not tune out all the wonder of sound.

Tongue, taste all the richness of food and drink that sustains me.
Let me remember to give thanks for my body that needs to be fed.

Hands, reach out to hold and comfort another and lift up.
Let me not hold back from touching another.

Mouth, let me speak from a responsible compassionate place.
Let me not utter words that are negative and have dull energy.

Heart, let me be free and live in the now with God.
Let me forgive and be my highest and best self.

Feet, let me go to places not known and explore my world.
Let me stand on sea and land and drink in the energy.

Soul, let me acknowledge and understand forgiveness.
Let me be free of human constraints and ego.

God, let me be with you now.
Let me do all that I can to acknowledge you and invite you in.

And so it is!

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TRY THIS!

Okay, here is the deal. Go look in a mirror right now and really see yourself and even if you don't believe that it is true say to yourself...

"YOU ARE FANTASTIC."

Don't allow the thought of, this is silly, keep you from doing it.
That is just ego talking. That is you talking.
Now talk the new talk...
Miracles will start to unfold if you do this every single day.
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How you start the day is usually how the day will end.

There will be people who agree and disagree with you, like you or not like you, want to be around you or will shun you, think you're wonderful or awful. No matter what people may do or say or think, never let it take away from who you are.

And So It Is

To those who have wiggled out of the woodwork and called me lunatic, deluded, witch, bitch, devils spawn, stupid and more, I thank you. You are so clever but not clever enough, I think. If you were, then you would realize that you only put me more in the spotlight...you draw attention to me and it assists me in reaching more people. Thank you for your help.
Yes, I am being a bit sarcastic but it needed to be said. I push buttons from time to time. It can never be said that I shy away from speaking out loud and long.

Just What Is Your Truth?

Here are ways in which you can get in touch with your truth:

1. Make a list of what you desire and phrase it in the present tense:
* "I have more than enough money to live a comfortable and relaxing life."
* "I am a beautiful person and heal others with my words."
2. Find a hobby or become reacquainted with an old one. Play an instrument, write, journal, dance, go for a walk, cook, etc.
3. Listen to your inner voice and shut out any negative thoughts. Tell them that they are "old news" and you don't need them anymore.
4. Come up with fun affirmations and place them around your home.
5. Breathe! Don't be so eager to respond in conversation or jump the gun when you are upset. Take a breath, or 5 breaths, before you say anything. This also applies if you are having a bad day.
6. Me-time is very important. Take a time out at least once a day to do something you enjoy.
7. Don't hide your feelings. Express them in a positive way by either journaling, talking to a friend, setting boundaries in relationships or speaking up and saying, "This doesn't feel right. I need a few moments before I decide."
8. If you must get angry, excuse yourself and be angry for a limited amount of time. Don't suppress your feelings. Afterward, have a good laugh about it. This also applies to other negative or self-defeating feelings.
9. Find the truth in others. Listen during conversations without thinking about how you will respond. Often we are paired with people who will teach us about our truth through mere reflection.

There are many ways to express yourself: words, song, writing, cooking, dancing, etc. Make your world reflect what you desire. Remember that all these forms of self-expression are your gifts! What does your self-expression say about you and your reality? What are you telling the world you want to attract? Are these expressions coming from negativity or from your heart and a place of truth?
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DEALING WITH THE PAST
It is important to remember that every single situation has brought you to where you are at this moment. Although heartbreaks, financial hardships and loss of jobs can seem like disasters, they can be blessings in disguise. Rather than think, "Wow! I was such a loser because I couldn't keep a job," focus on something good that came out of the experience. Perhaps losing a job ...pushed you into learning a more interesting trade or perhaps you met a special person in a new workplace. By shifting your thoughts and feelings, you are on your way to attracting positive people, situations and experiences into your life.

How to Recreate the Past

1. When a Negative Memory Creeps Up, Change It

Daydream about how you would have liked the event to unfold while keeping in mind that you cannot change another person. Focus on feeling excited or happy, rather than on being upset about something that happened. Imagine feeling relieved that you did not get that job because it really wasn't right for you. Believe that breaking up with your ex was the right thing to do for the well being of you both.

2. Change the Beliefs You Created From Past Events

Do you believe that love is hard? Do you believe you will always have financial difficulty? Change these beliefs. Visualize yourself laughing at those beliefs. Isn't it silly to think that the Universe doesn't want you to have success like other people? Isn't it hilarious that we gave so much power over to another person or situation that it altered our thoughts? Embrace the belief that you have the power to change it all for your highest good.

3. Find the Lessons in Your Experiences

What did you learn from negative experiences? What did you gain? Remember to focus on the positive. Do not think about how you spent two weeks on the couch eating cookie dough because some guy didn't want you. Instead, relax into the mental state where you had those "aha" moments. By focusing on the lessons, you'll be attracting more "Ah Ha" Moments about the past and your current situations. This place of clarity and acceptance will bring peace to your life.
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Who has Your POWER?

Many people feel discouraged by feelings of dis-empowerment. This happens when we give away our power by worrying too much about what another person is feeling, thinking and doing. Rather than focus on ourselves, we channel all of our energy into a situation that we cannot control. Can we truly control another? No! So, why exhaust all of our energy into a futile cause? Focusin...g on someone else at the expense of our own independence puts us in a powerless position. Our self-identity is compromised when we define ourselves by the feelings or actions of another person.

* Do you rely on the thoughts and feelings of others to determine what you should do?
* Do you seek constant validation from others so that you can feel good about yourself?
* Are your dreams defined by what another person thinks you should do?
* Where are you in this equation?
* Do you even exist?
* Or are you just a robot that lives by the program of another persons thoughts and feelings?

Self-esteem and self-acceptance issues are the primary reasons we find ourselves in this place of "need". We are not confident in our judgment. We lack the faith that no matter what happens, we will be provided for in every way. It's human to have vulnerable feelings every now and then, but it's debilitating to your spirit to constantly dwell on someone else. Let it go, realize you are the only person worth your energy and focus.
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Whatever you call God is all it takes.

Names invoke spiritual forces. What you name is what you call forth. God inhabits the praises of His people. So gratitude, thankfulness and praise expressed for who God is and what God has done invokes the presence of God. The nature of that presence reflects the language you use. Praise for God's healing invokes a 'healing anointing.'

The humble approach to praying for others is to admit that we can't change them. You are not God. God is God. So bless what God is doing in their life and leave them in God's hands. Let Go!

Turn Complaints into prayer.
Think upon this!

The tiger is awake and feeling good.

I started my gratitude practice this morning and I feel so charged and "HOOKED UP" and guided. I thanked God for my car, bed, kitchen, continued health, abundance, slippers, pillow, running water etc. That was within minutes of waking up.
If in the first precious moments of the day, you start with gratitude, the energy you invoke is over the top.
Now, I am excited because when this is done the day unfolds with experiences that make you wonder what the next moments hold for you.
It is spiritual magic and you hold the wand!

MESSAGE OF MY LOVE AND APPRECIATION

Okay Dear Friends, students, brothers, sisters, followers, supporters, soul family...
It is no mistake that we have met in this way.
Know that what I do, I take very seriously. I have devoted my life, time, energies and spirit to teaching and sharing knowledge with you.
When you read something I have posted shut your eyes and visualize my face. You will sense such love and compassion that I am sending out.

Right now, my whole body is vibrating with it and I feel that I could weep tears of joy.

As gratitude filled my being this morning, I had great gratitude for all of you and for the opportunity to be of service to as many of you as I can before I draw my last breath on this world.

Know that I love you and I am praying for all you collectively and individually as well.

I receive your requests for knowledge, understanding, guidance, prayer.
I accept your messages of love. I hear every one of you.
If you are reading this, it is my dearest wish that you feel the love I am sending you.
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GRATITUDE FORUM
For October 17, 2011
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Right here, Right now,
If you are reading this, I am asking you to leave a comment on one thing you are grateful for this day. Let us form an ever widening circle of love, knowledge and possibilities.

As you step forward and proclaim what is good in your life you will feel the energy from the other souls who are on this forum. Help me spread the message that GRATITUDE brings forth.

I want to create a forum of oneness and spiritual magic. I want all of you to feel how important and powerful the spiritual practice of GRATITUDE is! Then later on you can thank me that you took this seriously and it changed your entire day!

GOD IS LISTENING!
Oh How, GOD IS LISTENING!

Forgive, Forgive, Forgive and Live, Live Live

It’s easy to get wrapped up in thinking that forgiveness is just about something you “should do”. But forgiving can in a practical way be extremely beneficial for you.


One of the best reasons to forgive can be found in this quote by Catherine Ponder:

“When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”

As long as you don’t forgive someone you are linked to that person. Your thoughts will return to the person who wronged you and what s/he did over and over again. The emotional link between the two of you is so strong and inflicts much suffering in you and – as a result of your inner turmoil – most often in other people around you too.

When you forgive you do not only release the other person. You set yourself free from all of that agony.

5 STEPS TO POWERFUL RESOLUTIONS TO ANY PROBLEM

By Rev. Diannia Baty

Last night I started having computer issues and during this time I could rapidly see how much I have grown spiritually, emotionally and mentally.
There was a time when this would have sent me into a panic and it would have ruined my hours and days until I got it resolved.
... Now, I use all my tools of mind, body and spirit to deal with it.

1. Using the powers of the mind, I mentally take inventory of what I am thinking and change whatever thoughts need to be changed. If there is a negative thought, I use a affirmation that is powerful instead. In this case, I stated, " Stay calm. The solution is at hand and it will be resolved quickly. Be at peace."

2. I checked in with my body to see if any signals of stress was present. Stiff neck, agitation, shallow or fast breathing or irritation in my stomach would be signs that my body was reacting to my thoughts.

3. Spiritually, I start using gratitude, staying in the now and I send out a request to the spiritual realm for assistance and guidance for fast resolution. I know my spirit guides and guardian angels will rise to the occasion every single time.

4. I thank my creator by saying, "I thank you for everything as it is already on its way."

5. I LET GO!
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Last Wishes!

I, REV. DIANNIA BATY, being of sound mind and body, do not wish to be kept alive indefinitely by artificial means. Under no circumstances should my fate be put in the hands of pinhead politicians who couldn’t pass ninth-grade biology if their lives depended on it, or lawyers / doctors interested in simply running up the bills. If a reasonable amount of time passes and I fail to ask for at least one of the following:

Glass of wine or a Bloody Mary
chocolate
a ride in the mountains
a trip to the thrift store
Margarita
chocolate
my dog Hector
Fried Shrimp
chocolate
Chicken fried steak
Fried Chicken
cream gravy
chocolate
Mexican food
chocolate
French fries
chocolate
Pizza
chocolate
ice cream
cup of tea
chocolate
Chocolate
Asparagus
To Play with my dog, Hector
A Hug
My fuzzy bunny slippers or
reruns of...Sex in the City and Dancing with the Stars.
It should be presumed that I won’t ever get better. When such a determination is reached, I hereby instruct my appointed person and attending physicians to pull the plug, reel in the tubes and call it a day.